Dating in japanese culture
You would say something like: “I like you, and I think you’re lovely” Rule (women): Don’t be touchy feely with him, as he’ll think you’re a whore and just after his trouser snake. While Japan only has around 10,000 people infected with HIV (which is low), their lifestyle choices and behavior are rather reckless as the believe only foreigners have HIV, they themselves will not get tested and will not use condoms.
The same rules still apply in Japan, the men must make the first move, and the women must first give him the ‘sign’ that she is interested. Give your partner several dates in order to start developing & showing feelings for you. Therefore, be safe and get a free HIV test done at a clinic.
Warning: If your partner (Japanese male) insists (emphasis on insists) on not using a condom, be warned that he is a player. Japanese girls are notoriously easy (for various reasons including the cultural subservience to men), and if you put enough pressure on them they will give it up.
Warning: Japanese women are notorious for lying, concealing their real feelings and tolerating relationships which they are not happy to be in, which then leads to cheating (this is also true of Japanese men).
This fear of speaking up is part of their cultural upbringing.
So if you are one of those types who wants to have a child farm then you’ll have to work that out with your partner.
It is also not uncommon for Japanese to not even have children. If you’ve made it this far then you are to be commended for your endurance and apparent saint like qualities in tolerating and understanding your partner.
In order to save you from heart-break the tone of this article is rather aggressive.