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Text chemistry is no guarantee of in-person chemistry, but it’s the only indicator we have.” And sometimes a poor indicator.
That’s what a 24-year-old friend I’ll call Jane found after falling for a guy she met on dating app Coffee Meets Bagel after weeks of messaging.
It’s very hard for single people to know when they’ve gotten out of that ‘game’ stage.” MORE: How to Find Love Online, According to the Founder of OKCupid In her book, Turkle writes about a man she met who thinks the time he takes to carefully structure text responses makes him a better person, communicator and mate.
“He told me that I sounded, ‘kind of insane,’ to which I responded that I know myself well enough to know when something won’t work,” she says.
, the comedian tells of a time a woman he had recently seen was slow to respond to texts, leading Ansari to wonder whether he had done something to turn her off or even whether she had died.
Whether a witty repartee is established in those first few messages on Tinder or Bumble could be the first step to a lasting relationship.
And the problems persist among long-term couples for whom texting and emailing have in many ways supplanted face-to-face conversations.
“When we would hang out he was funny and charismatic and a great conversationalist.